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	<title>Comments on: Will you be my friend?</title>
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	<description>They don&#039;t teach this stuff in college</description>
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		<title>By: scarymommy</title>
		<link>http://theiveyleague.com/2009/04/27/will-you-be-my-friend/comment-page-1/#comment-463</link>
		<dc:creator>scarymommy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 02 May 2009 17:08:05 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I couldn&#039;t agree more!! I just unfriended 8 people last night and I feel so much lighter. :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I couldn&#8217;t agree more!! I just unfriended 8 people last night and I feel so much lighter. <img src='http://theiveyleague.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: Tara</title>
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		<dc:creator>Tara</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 28 Apr 2009 23:37:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Sometimes (ok, many) I think &quot;old&quot; &quot;friends&quot; add me just to find out why I have a funny last name...a few of them have actually unfriended me when they figured out I married a non-pale man.  So, I completely understand your pet peeves.  Another problem I ran into is when one of my brother&#039;s childhood friends added me...I was ok with it until he started making snide remarks about my causes (refugees, child brides, various humantarian stuff).  Then I figured out that none of my &quot;friends&quot; should make me angry and want to avoid them on fb...so I unfriended him (my only thus far).  And, oddly enough, my brother ignored his friend request--apparently old deeds do indeed come back to haunt folks.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Sometimes (ok, many) I think &#8220;old&#8221; &#8220;friends&#8221; add me just to find out why I have a funny last name&#8230;a few of them have actually unfriended me when they figured out I married a non-pale man.  So, I completely understand your pet peeves.  Another problem I ran into is when one of my brother&#8217;s childhood friends added me&#8230;I was ok with it until he started making snide remarks about my causes (refugees, child brides, various humantarian stuff).  Then I figured out that none of my &#8220;friends&#8221; should make me angry and want to avoid them on fb&#8230;so I unfriended him (my only thus far).  And, oddly enough, my brother ignored his friend request&#8211;apparently old deeds do indeed come back to haunt folks.</p>
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		<title>By: Liz Sanders</title>
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		<dc:creator>Liz Sanders</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 28 Apr 2009 18:14:07 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I feel the same way. I wonder why they want to be my friend especially when the weren&#039;t in real life, in fact they picked on me in school and tried to make my life miserable. Sometimes my curiosity gets the better of me and I accept to see what they have been up to.

I have had purging episodes where I delete people who I don&#039;t talk to. Especially on Myspace, on FB I have kept my friends down to a small number.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I feel the same way. I wonder why they want to be my friend especially when the weren&#8217;t in real life, in fact they picked on me in school and tried to make my life miserable. Sometimes my curiosity gets the better of me and I accept to see what they have been up to.</p>
<p>I have had purging episodes where I delete people who I don&#8217;t talk to. Especially on Myspace, on FB I have kept my friends down to a small number.</p>
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		<title>By: April</title>
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		<dc:creator>April</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 28 Apr 2009 16:55:58 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Girl. I have to admit that I have become quite the un-friender these days.  Facebook has taken the meaning on the word to places it was never meant to be &amp; I have just recently started trying to regain it&#039;s real meaning - at least with people that fit the descriptions you gave.  Happy un-friending.  I KNOW YOU CAN DO IT! Yes, I was yelling&#039;but not because I&#039;m mad :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Girl. I have to admit that I have become quite the un-friender these days.  Facebook has taken the meaning on the word to places it was never meant to be &amp; I have just recently started trying to regain it&#8217;s real meaning &#8211; at least with people that fit the descriptions you gave.  Happy un-friending.  I KNOW YOU CAN DO IT! Yes, I was yelling&#8217;but not because I&#8217;m mad <img src='http://theiveyleague.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: Peapodsquadmom</title>
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		<dc:creator>Peapodsquadmom</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 28 Apr 2009 15:45:03 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>ok, that was just really REALLY funny. and have i shared my un-friend story? can&#039;t do it here, but i&#039;m happy to share. ;-)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>ok, that was just really REALLY funny. and have i shared my un-friend story? can&#8217;t do it here, but i&#8217;m happy to share. <img src='http://theiveyleague.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: Becky</title>
		<link>http://theiveyleague.com/2009/04/27/will-you-be-my-friend/comment-page-1/#comment-458</link>
		<dc:creator>Becky</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 28 Apr 2009 15:27:28 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>OMG!  It&#039;s me!  You&#039;re talking about me!  (hee hee)  :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>OMG!  It&#8217;s me!  You&#8217;re talking about me!  (hee hee)  <img src='http://theiveyleague.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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