If I’d Known Then What I Know Now…

If I knew then what I know now,
I would have worried less about what other people thought.

If I knew then what I know now,
I would have made better financial decisions.

If I knew then what I know now,
I would have tried more of some things and less of others.

If I knew then what I know now,
I would have never worked at that one place.
(You know the one.)

If I knew then what I know now,
I would have believed in myself
and been confident in the person I was becoming.

And if I knew then what I know now,
I would have told myself to dream big;
expect the unexpected;
and remember that the past is worth remembering,
the future is worth anticipating,
but what really counts is the right here, right now.

I would have told myself to breathe deeply,
drink in every moment,
and be  happy.

I’m glad that even though I can’t go back and tell myself those things,
That there was someone, my special someone,
Who loved me enough to tell me these things when I needed to hear them.

Marshall, thank you for telling me and teaching me and loving me.

It’s been the best 9 years of my life, and I can’t wait for more.

P.S.  Your head is not nearly as oddly shaped as this picture makes it look.  Just sayin’.

7 Responses to If I’d Known Then What I Know Now…
  1. AmazingGreis
    May 26, 2010 | 11:26 am

    Great post. And happy 9 years to you!!!

  2. Monica
    May 26, 2010 | 9:05 pm

    awww…and yeah, whassup with marsh’s head in this pic? 😉 seriously, i love you both to pieces. happy anniversary!!

  3. Momma Lioness Michele
    May 26, 2010 | 10:12 pm

    Love the photo – and this post! Happy Anniversary!!

  4. Sarah
    May 27, 2010 | 4:35 am

    Awwww! Happy 9 years!

  5. domestic extraordinaire
    May 27, 2010 | 6:00 am

    awww, Happy Belated Anniversary you two!!

  6. Alaina
    May 27, 2010 | 7:32 am

    how sweet! congratulations! and that photo of you two is adorable!

  7. punkinmama
    June 2, 2010 | 1:21 pm

    Love.

    You two are so cute! Congrats on 9 years!