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James and Alaina's Wedding

The wedding was beautiful!

The weather was great.
It actually rained for about 2 minutes right before the bride and groom walked in,
but it was just enough to cool things down.
And, of course, Alaina was gorgeous.
(James was pretty cute, too!)

Here’s a sneek peek of what I got:












Remember this post? The one that was talking about how I was learning to accept compliments? Well, yeah…I’m still not getting much better at that.  People often tell me how much they love my photography; how great a photographer I am.  And I appreciate it.  I really do.  But I have a hard time believing it.  I want to believe it.  I want to believe that I’m good at it.  And I want to believe that people really mean what they say.  But I have a really hard time with it.

But I have to admit that when I look through the lens of a camera, I see things more clearly-literally and metaphorically.  I have my camera set for my eyes.  What you see when you look through my viewfinder isn’t going to be perfectly focused.  That’s because my eyes(even after Lasik) aren’t perfectly focused, and I’ve adjusted my viewfinder accordingly.

What, metaphorically, do I see better through a camera lens?  The old adage is true, I guess; a picture really is worth a thousand words.  For example, when I look at this picture of Lydia:

Easter08I see my little princess.  That’s obvious.  What you can’t see (but I can) is the silly face I had to make to get that smile.  I see that little gap between her baby teeth, and I realize that it probably won’t be there this time next year.  And I see her perfectly formed curls that curl beautifully all on their own.  And I see her cute little toes scrunched up on the concrete, even though there not even close to being in this shot.  I notice the little spec of red behind her arm.  And I know it’s the geranium that we picked out together.

And I see this picture:

Tucker001and I see a Carter that we don’t get to see very often.  He’s usually all grins and giggles, but I love the intent look in his eyes here.  I love that you can see the remains of chocolate on his lip, even though we’d eaten it hours before.  I love how he’s wearing the sunglasses that he wore for three days straight, but pulled them up long enough to look at me.  Really look at me.  I love how I know that he was wearing the top of his favorite pj’s.  And I love that I can remember that we were outside and he didn’t have on pants and he didn’t see that as a problem.  And, this may sound ego-centric, but I love the way that I can see me in him.  No, literally; look at my reflection in his glasses!  🙂

And I can’t forget Mr. Asa.

LukeI know that he’ll never be this little again.  And I see the little crack on his lip…I’d already forgotten it was ever there.  And his eyes.  Oh, his eyes.  Will I look back at this picture with him some day and say, “Look…your eyes used to be slate gray”?  They’re getting darker every day.  And will I tell him about the seat he’s sitting in for this picture?  His jumper-seat that he happily bounces around in all day long.  And that toothless grin won’t be toothless for much longer.  (I hope!)

I say all of that to say this…I’m glad that people like my pictures.  I’m glad that people have confidence in me.  But, as with any picture, it’s not the picture that really counts.  It’s the memories that go with the picture.  Those little things you can’t capture, you can’t see with your eyes no matter how clear or focused or perfect the shot is.

I’m photographing a wedding this weekend.  I’ve never taken on a project this big.  I’m nervous as all get-out, scared to death.  When I think about it, I kinda want to throw up a little bit.  (No, I’m not pregnant.)  So, since this blog is my therapy…I decided to a) remind myself that I can take good pictures, and b) beg you guys to give me a little self-esteem boost.  Pleeeeeease?  🙂  I know that asking people to sing your praises kinda defeats the purpose.  And it’s not really a very cool thing to do.  But I’m doing it anyway.  Give a girl some love?  I’ll return the favor one day, I promise!

Wow…what a weekend!

And I don’t even have pictures! 

On Friday night we drove up to see Marshall’s parents.  We ate at one of my favorite restaurants, but I had a pregnant moment while was there and ended up being completely repulsed by the food I’d wanted so badly only moments before.  That’s on of my biggest gripes about pregnancy.  I hate that you can want something with such passion, and then the moment you set eyes on it, you feel like you might just hurl.  Not nice.  And I’m not a “craver” usually.  When I’m preggo, I can be hungry, starving and not be able to think of anything that sounds remotely appealing.  Annoying.

Anyway, Saturday was a great day for all of us.  Marshall’s parents kept the kids for us while we drove to ATL for a wedding.  The kids and in-laws had fun because they got time together to go to the park.  They fed the ducks and saw lots of animals-the bear and llama seem to be the kid favorites. 

We had fun because we got to go to a wedding unlike anything we’d ever seen before.  The wedding itself was pretty typical of American Catholic weddings, but the reception was amazing.  It was at Magnolia Hall in Piedmont Park.  And what made this shin-dig so different for us was that the majority of the attendees were from Nigeria.  What an exciting culture!  The aunts, uncles, and special friends of the groom brought gifts for all of the attendees.  We left with a bag full of fun goodies like an egg tray, hand towels, decorative plates, a bath towel, a tote bag, a notebook…the list goes on!  You all know how much of a sucker I am for free stuff!  🙂 

 The food was delicious.  And we had to leave to get back home just about the time the Nigerian music started.  Man, what a beat!  I wish we could have heard more!!  Everyone was so friendly and beautiful in their traditional dress.  The women wore these beautiful headdresses, which I now know are called “gele”. (You can see something similar to what the women were wearing here.  This is the same family, but a different celebration.) I started to use the word hat or headgear, but headdress is much more appropriate.  I’m telling you, these things were so beautifully wrapped and crafted.  I secretly wanted to wear one, too!  🙂  I hate that I didn’t have my camera!!  (I left it at home???  I can only claim pregnancy brain!)  Anyway, the ceremony and party were both beautiful, as was the bride who is an old friend of mine from home. 

OH!  Talking about free stuff a minute ago reminded me that during Mommyfest 2008, I WON something!  Kaye over at Mr. Nespy’s World had a give-away for a “Mom Journal” seen here (the bottom, solid bright pink one).  The front of it reads: “Mom’s Journal: My kids drive me nuts. I drive them everywhere else.”  And it is apparently “helps mom keep track of schedules, medical information, and important phone numbers”.  So…I should get my “winnings” in the mail soon!  Yay!

Oh!  And since I’m a loser and didn’t take my camera to the wedding, I’m going to see if my friend Tara will let me link you guys to her website once her wedding pictures are up!  Cool wedding…must see!